Tuesday, January 3, 2012

It's been a ridiculously long time since I wrote here, but oh well. This time I'll rant you a little, yes only a little probably about homosexuality.

First, I will state what I think about it. It's all right. One can be homosexual if one wants but one doesn't need to be if they don't. I don't get the fuss over it.

Then. The old testament of Christians and Jews states that it's a sin right? (Haven't read so I might state a little wrong, but these are the things I've come to understand) In the new testament of Christians Jesus says everyone's okay and good right? Well, not exactly but that everyone's equal right? well, he does say that what it meant for man and woman men shouldn't do that between themselves right? Other religions I have no idea, feel free to comment if you know.

I believe the official opinion is that they're people just like others? They're a minority. They're being bullied and thought bad of. Some people are fine, some people don't think about them, some people ignore them, some are aggressive towards them, some fight beside them, some are them.

Sexuality. It's a part of each and everyone's identity. It's the frame for searching the one we want to love as lovers. A frame for who we accept as our partners in life. What does one's sexuality have to do with anyone else but those one would like to approach during the search for the life partner? No one if you're heterosexual. Everyone if you're homosexual. No one even knows you exist if you're bi.

Those who are against homosexuality say that it has to do with behaviour. It's a thing you learn from your environment. Something went wrong in when you were growing up or something. It's the devil whispering to you to do wrong. Something like that.
Those who are on homosexual's side say it's something they were born as. Something they can't fight or change. It's true there is I think even proven that it has a little to do with the genes. But that's only a little.

Yes, it's a combination, some of us are more prone to becoming homosexual, yes becoming, but environment can make homosexual even if you aren't prone to it, and even those who are prone on becoming homos may not become. It's like... how tall you'll be, or how fat. You have the genes, but environment can nullify the genes.

Ultimately, I think being homosexual is like liking something. Like ice cream. Someone likes vanilla, someone else likes chocolate. And then there are those who like both. But if someone doesn't like chocolate, are you going to go rasist up her/his ass? Because that person likes a different thing than you do? yes. Most people do. What's so bad about liking chocolate instead of vanilla? And yes, genes ahve to do with liking things too. You have a tendency of liking somehting, but if you want to, you can learn to like something else too. Some people just can't stand chocolate, and some people can't stand vanilla. What so bad about that?

We can put this idea to a more sexual environment. Some people love white people, some people couldn't even think of dating a white skinned person. Never. Or hair colour or anything. Some people like different things. What's so bad about that?

Didn't end up being so small rant. But who cares?