Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Everyone knows how love is completely and overly romanticised. No wonder, love is the freaking source of romance... in a sence right? Well... Love has been described with physical feelings, hot, blushing, beating hard and so on. Yes they are all things that usually happen when you're in love. You're madly in love, straight from Finnish, you're headlessly in love. Love is blind. I believe the romantic interpretation is that sligh wrong doings, hugging another, or even kissing, doesn't bother the realy love am I correct? Well, love really, literally and overpowerily is blind.

For some reason, which I do not know, you're completely blind to the other's errors when you're "madly" in love. It's a phase. It'll pass. Still, most desire just that, "madly in love" kind of feeling. Why? Because it somehow is completely different form the normal routines? Yes, it is. Because then you don't need to live the normal boring life? It's still boring, you just can't see it. If you define love as that "Madly in love" feeling, you'll never find endless love. It always passes... In some countries, still, the marriages are set up. They don't look for the "madly in love"-feeling. They look for understanding and respect, which usually, to my belief, grows into love. The real love, you know other's errors, but still love that person, want to be with him/her.

Love IS drug. It's not 'like' drug. It IS. It secretes(?) the same neurotransmitters as some drugs. It creates LOADS of dopamine, the thing that makes you feel nice. Why does love make that happen? I have no idea. I'd like to know though. So, everyone who's been in love, can't say they haven't been on drugs. Yup, we're all drugaddicts. We all grave for love, well, almost everyone of course.

Love makes people act in weird ways, doesn't it? Friends who you've held SO close and important, suddenly don't feel so important anymore, you just want to be with the one you love. Love is just an excuse to stalk people isn't it? Think about it. Those who have been in love, especially, you might stalk what that person does, where he/she goes, what they like and so on. You might want things just to remind yourselves of them, their smell is like exstacy and you just grave to feel their touch. If it wasn't because of love, doesn't that sound like a stalker? A very, scary stalker. But if you're in love, i's NORMAL! Funny isn't it?

But ultimately, as a victim of love, I can't complain. I like it. At times of course... Being without my love is excruciating isn't it? But the times you're with that person.... You're in the freaking 10th heaven.

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